Monday, February 20, 2012

A women’s health question:What is wrong with me?

February 20, 2012 by admin  
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I have no weight issues or anything but I always feel like I need to eat.I get upset when others are not eating and so I prefer to stay hungry.I can eat even on a full stomach.When I do eat when are not ,I get really depressed and feel useless.I have stopped having fun in the things I used to have fun in.I feel like there is no need to do anything.I cry all the time on stupid things including eating.I get angry and annoyed really quickly.I used to binge before but never cared about other people not eating as much as I do untill I got typhoid like an year and a half ago.I can’t even study properly.My family members have dreams and I want to make them happen.But the thing is that I don’t know what I would do after that.I don’t want to go to the places I would love to go to as I think thy won’t turn out to be the way I think they are.I can’t care about people because all I can think of is eating.I don’t want to even get married later on because I don’t think I would be able to care about who ever he is.I don’t want things for myself because I’m worried thjat if others in my family like my siblings don’t get those things it would be wrong.I am talking about things like college marriage etc..If what I have is better than what they have it would be wrong.I have three cats and I am always the one taking care of them the most and stroking them as if I have nothing to do.I am only 16 and this makes me feel like an old cat lady.I am writing a book and would like to see that eventually become a film.I think that is the only thing I am interested in.It really hurts me when the online publishing sites turn out to be a scam or a vanity press.I also have menstrual problems.My periods have started taking double the time to come.The lst one I had was just spotting.Please help.

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4 Responses to “A women’s health question:What is wrong with me?”
  1. Neal says:

    you could be prego

  2. Coriander3 says:

    You have a high metabolism and your periods are probably starting to slow down because you are starving yourself when you “prefer to stay hungry.” Don’t be afraid to eat as often as you want, if you’re hungry then you obviously need to eat.
    All the things you’re worrying about, everyone does. I go through the same thing. I feel useless and hopeless sometimes and see nothing in the future. It’ll get easier as you get older, just try to deal with it a healthy way. Do what makes you happy, including eating. Eating is like my most favorite thing in the world to do, aside from sleeping of course haha. I’m 5’3 and 115 pounds and I eat all the time. Especially when i’m exercising regularly, i eat more than twice as much as usual. You’re still young and developing. Nourish your body. Eat as much as you need, but eat healthy. Take care of yourself and be happy sista :) This is your time to grow and be all that you can be!! Don’t worry about stuff (and believe me, i have a hard time not worrying too)!! Hang in there :)

  3. Arun says:

    It appears that you health has not been fully restored back to normalcy since the last Typhoid u had. You may like to try taking a dose of a herbal homeopathic remedy called Pulsatilla 30c and see if that helps. This remedy is known to help in such lingering state of non health associated with feeling like eating all the time, crying, late menses etc. It just might help u as well

  4. Kim says:

    Honey, this sounds a lot more like a mental health issue than a physical one. You’re not eating properly, you’ve lost enthusiasm for life, and you’re feeling awkward and guilty if you want things that most people want. This sounds a lot like the early stages of depression, and it may well turn into an eating disorder as well.

    It will sound strange, but you need to talk to your doctor about this. Try and nip these thought patterns in the bud while you still can, because they can play real havoc with the rest of your life (believe me: I KNOW). It’s not good to go through your life in this state. There’s so much wonder and joy in you, but it sounds like you just can’t see that right now.

    Talk to your doctor. Talk to somebody. :)

    Good luck.

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