question about women’s health… ?
January 29, 2012 by admin
Filed under health care
Ok, I have a new girlfriend and I think theres something wrong w/ her health. We haven’t had sex because I was kinda skeptical when she told me that there are some stuff happening down there. She said she has a hard bump on her vagina and its been there for months. After that she told me that she’s been feeling sharp pain on the left lower part of her tummy. However, she only feel the pain for few minutes then goes away, then comes back after a few weeks.
After months of having these symptoms… she also had blisters on her lips for like 3 days then she put and alcohol in it then it was gone.
But the bump on her vagina and the pain she feels on her lower left tummy are still there.
Now I don’t wanna jump into conclusion that she really has some kind of STD and I don’t wana judge her on what she did on her past. I know we all make mistakes and sometimes we don’t think b4 we do stuff. But I care for her and I love her… so if anyone out there knows these symptoms pls. let me know what this could possibly be.
Also, I told her to get tested but everytime I tell her she gets mad.
From Health Finger, post question about women’s health… ?
if she cares about you and loves you and wants to be intimate, then she will get tested. if she still refuses, then don’t have sex with her, whatever you do!
the sharp pains are probably period pains
maybe your asking her in the wrong way, dont ask her to get tested for an std tell her she should go see a doctor about the sharp pains.
the sharp pain could possibly be her ovulating, some girls can actually feel it.
the hard bump could just be a razor burn or ingrown hair that hasn’t healed.
tell her to wash it with a loofah and some type of body wash and as soon as she is done out of the shower/bath tell her to put alcohol on it so it drys up, not letting any germs in it.
you need to tell her she has to go to the doctors even if it is as a check up – she could be seriously ill and shes probably just putting it off because she’s scared of finding out somethings wrong, and if it is that she may lose you. just let her know that you love and no matter what youre there for her
go to a gp coz it could be some think bad
A girl i used to work with had the same sort of symptoms and she had caught genital herpes from her BF.
I’m not saying that this is def what your GF has but just that the symptoms do sound like it. It is a bit worrying that she gets mad when you suggest getting tested. You could try saying that you could both go together then it will not sound as if you are accusing her of having an STI
Hope this helps
Very possibly she has an ovarian problem, not an STD.
Maybe she has those common ovarian cysts, and they’ve gotten too big for comfort.
Or, like I had, maybe there’s an ovarian tumor. Mine grew from mutated cells that surround the eggs inside the ovary. It became large, stretching the membrane of the ovary until it was nearly the size of a grapefruit. Surgery and follow up (no chemo) followed, with no further problems.
Really, her mom or parent needs to know. How are they gonna’ feel if the girl lets this go and needs surgery or hurts herself needlessly?
For your part, don’t even mention STD again, your fear can undermine her confidence in you, something you’re looking to build.
Best wishes.